Having a baby is such a huge responsibility. I think that people do not really think about what they are undertaking to start with. They just think about the little baby and worry about things like unique baby girl names or what clothes to put it in. They do not think past the Spanish baby names bit and about the future. I find my role as a parent gets increasingly harder as they get older. I have to not only teach them right from wrong, how to behave appropriately and how to do things for themselves but also help them with school work, play games with them and do everything I can, to produce well rounded and happy individuals. The name seems rather irrelevant when you are trying to grab parenting tips from every direction and generally trying to do everything you can to make your family a good one. I think until you are a parent you cannot understand this and all of the guilt that goes along with it. I just think that as long as you are trying as hard as you can and doing what you think is right then that is the best you can do.